Last season, Sam left dean to rot in purgatory and dean got over it. Sam winchester can get over the fact that dean let gadriel save him.
Dean went to hell for sam. So I call bullshit when sam says dean only saved sam for himself. If gadriel had said he could save sam but dean had to die dean would have gladly done it. I know neither one of the Winchesters are perfect but sometimes I think sam can be a little bitch.
There are loads of things dean has done that sam could be angry about but he always chooses to be pissed at dean when dean does something understandable.
For starters: Dean was bringing up purgatory steadily through season eight, up to and including “Sacrifice,” where he added it to the list of things Sam should confess about. He spent an entire season making digs at Sam about purgatory. He did not immediately forgive Sam, and I find it appalling that that is okay with you but Sam setting boundaries and asking the to be respected is evidently not permissible in your book.
Because you have ignored the very concept that Dean, knowing Sam would not want to be possessed by an angel, would be fiercely against such a thing, tricked Sam into “agreeing” to possession, lied to him about it for months, let Sam believe he was going crazy, and, when all was said and done, refused to apologize and actually said he would put Sam through that all over again. You are ignoring the fact that Dean did this so he won’t have to be alone, because Sam, who was inches from death, made his peace and was ready to go—Dean did not do this for Sam, but did it because he felt it right, despite the fact that he knew Sam would be against it. You are ignoring the fact that Dean let something into Sam’s body without his consent, while knowing Sam would be vehemently against such a thing, did not make a single attempt at any point to gain legitimate consent, and then has steadily refused to apologize.
But yeah, Sam is just being a little bitch, he has absolutely no right to be upset, want an apology, or a promise from Dean to try to respect Sam’s own wishes and boundaries in the future. Nope, none at all.
Sam has not even had a full season to be angry and unforgiving about something that is frankly unforgivable. Dean literally manipulated Sam into his very worst fear. So, if Sam’s a “little bitch” for this, what does that make Dean for the upwards of 4 seasons that he didn’t forgive Sam for the demon blood? Just wondering.